Kitchen Color Crisis!

I have medium colour oak cupboards and the floor is also medium oak.

The counter is granite with a white background and brown, black, orange, gray and silver colour flecks throughout the granite.

The backsplash is a natural stone which is light browns, off whites and beige.

My appliances are stainless steel. I have an espresso drop leaf wood table and a corner cupboard that is also a very dark brown paint.

We picked a paint which was an off white leaning toward the beige and it is so boring.

I then got more paint which is called desert tan by Benjamin Moore and it looks nothing like the chip, looks yellow and not liking it.

Please help and suggest a colour for me.

Thanks, Pat